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New Year Intentions, not resolutions!

With 2017 just starting and the silly season winding down it’s a time when we often look into our lives to see what we want to change for the upcoming year. Welcome to my rant about setting intentions instead of setting resolutions…

 

Setting Intentions instead of Resolutions

I encourage self-reflection. Change needs to occur for growth to happen.

But I don’t believe in setting a New Year’s Resolutions.

Why?

A resolution is a firm decision to do or not to do something. By definition, it’s an action that solves a problem. Though we mean well when we make resolutions, the term has seriously negative connotations.

Instead of resolutions, I focus on setting a yearly intention because an intention is an aim or a plan. An intention isn’t something you can fail at like a resolution; it’s a process you continually undergo through the entire year.

Remember, our words determine our thought processes, so using a positive word promotes change as beneficial rather than an issue we must fix. You are a work in progress, not a mistake! Be positive with your words and choose to set your New Year’s intentions as a lifestyle to work towards rather than a strict deadline to adhere.

 

Working Towards Your Intentions

Once you have had a think about your intentions, how do you stick to them? Learn the ABC’s of goal setting:

A= Accountability

B = Balance, and

C = Consistency.

These three aspects will help propel you towards reaching your intentions every day in 2017.

 

Accountability

Set your intentions and get an accountability partner. I have a lovely friend that is my accountability buddy called Su-Ann.

Su-Ann runs her own business which is a graphic design studio so we are both solo business owners. Once a week (at the same time each week) we set a time to chat through what we have achieved in the previous week as well as discussing any problems or issues that we are struggling to solve on our own. We follow an agenda and while we keep it quite informal we still have a basic structure to follow.

It works really well for us and it helps me to keep on track of what I have said I wanted to achieve.

An accountability partner is someone who is positive and encouraging towards your intentions. They will gently speak when you need a bit of encouragement or they will firmly move you when you need a bigger push. This person will remind you of your intentions and persuade, encourage, and love you as your work towards them.

 

Balance

Nothing in life can happen without balance but it is a really hard thing to master. I don’t feel like I really have it under control most of the time but I do try…

You may fall off the wagon once (or a few times), but the biggest thing to remember is that doesn’t mean you failed. You’ll have great weeks and terrible weeks. The key to realising your intentions is understanding that balance is what makes everything equal.

Try your best to set intentions that allow some space for you to breathe and for you to achieve the mindset that you need for that lifestyle. I know this is a tough one when you are a mum but if you do need a bit of time out to breath and your partner or a family member will support you, make sure you take them up on that.

 

Consistency

Without a doubt, the aspect of consistency is the most important in goal-setting. For change to occur, it must have time and opportunity. The only way for your intentions to truly come to life is with consistency in giving yourself the time to change and the opportunity to change.

Don’t just set it and forget it! An intention is a process that you schedule into your life until it becomes a routine that you look forward to doing.

As an example one of my 2017 goals is to read more, I am going to be consistent with reading because I have set up a mini book club with one of my besties. Once a month we are going to buy a book for each other and then at the end of the month we are going to go out to dinner and discuss the book.

Sounds completely nerdy I know BUT the way I see it is that (A) I get to read more, which is working towards achieving a goal (B) My friend will keep me accountable because we are both working to the same timeframe and (C) I get to spend time with one of my best friends – WIN WIN WIN I say 🙂

I’d love to know what are your intentions for 2017? Let me know in the comments below and let’s work together on making them happen and feeling fantastic about the year ahead.

 

Love Karen

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The Christmas Survival Guide – For Mums

As Christmas Carols take over the airwaves, families travel all over the world to enjoy the most wonderful time of the year together. But for fitness mums, it can be a bit tricky to let go and enjoy the festivities…

We must attend (multiple!) parties and host dinners. We buy and wrap all the presents. And somehow, we still maintain a functional life, even if travelling to our Christmas destination. So how does a mum do it all? The keyword is balance.

Here is your guide to stay on track with your fit, healthy lifestyle during Christmas.

Attending a party: Just because you’re invited doesn’t mean your attendance is mandatory. Choose the parties you really want to go to; it’s your holiday after all. Fewer parties mean decreased stress of prepping outfits, finding babysitters and gifts, and over-indulging.

Hosting a party: Keep your stress levels down as much as possible. Remember, a party should be fun. Provide low-calorie beverages (the other fit mums will thank you too!) and healthy food options alongside the yummy, naughty snacks.

Buying presents: Gift cards. The recipient will be happy when it’s paired with a handwritten card and a decent amount to a favorite store. People will also thank you for not having to feel guilty for re-gifting a well-intentioned, but unnecessary present.

Wrapping presents: If you know the perfect something to buy but can’t wrap, get someone else to do it for you. Many stores have gift wrap options. Some even have charity wrappers so you can donate to a worthy cause while not struggling over an odd-shaped present. And if all else fails, just bag it.

Working out: You may not fit your regular workouts in and you may not even get to the gym some days. It’s okay! You’re probably still keeping active with last minute shopping and chasing around your children. If relatives offer to babysit, accept their offer! Unwind with a walk or run, even if you’ve missed a few days. Your body will thank you for having a break from the holiday chaos.

Travelling: Pack minimally. You will save on baggage fees and headaches as you haul smaller suitcases to your destination. It’s also an excuse to buy new clothes if you do end up short on items. Remember that not everything will happen on schedule, so have toys or games for your kids if your plans are delayed or derailed. Happy children mean less stress for parents.

Make This Christmas All About Balance

It’s okay to get out of your fitness and health routine a little during the holidays. Don’t beat yourself up! Not every day will be a perfect food day or a day where you exercised for an hour. It’s all about balance. Treat yourself kindly when you indulge in a sweet by going on a walk that evening. Take the kids to the park and have a bit of fun with them. If you have a cocktail, enjoy it.

My biggest advice is to stay active when you have the time and eat healthy when you can – simple.

Lots of love

Karen

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The dangers of the Hollywood mum trap

I’m a little fired up today. And here’s why…

Yesterday I read an article at the dentist in No Idea (Sorry New Idea)
where a Hollywood Actress who’s now a new mum,
was sharing her tips on how she got back into shape after giving birth.

Now I’m happy for her, but here’s my problem with this advice.

New mums read articles like this and get disappointed
with the progress they are making, compared to the
Hollywood star.

Forget Hollywood.

Hollywood is the last place you should look
for any health and fitness advice.

Just think…

When movie stars give birth, they’ve already assembled
a small army of helpers.

There’s a fulltime nanny, chef, driver, personal assistant,
trainer and nutritionist just to name a few.

Imagine having all of that at your disposal?

Imagine not having to wake up 4 times a night
to feed the baby.

Having all your healthy meals prepared for you
by a chef.

Or…

Getting a relaxing massage every 2 days.

Or…

Working out with a full 8 hours sleep under your belt.

Under those conditions with all that help anyone
could look amazing.

See, over the years I’ve met plenty of mums who are frustrated
with their weight loss progress after having a baby.

In most cases they’ve been unknowingly been following poor
advice, which happens all the time.

At Pram Fitness, the mums follow proven advice.

The mums only do exercises and workouts, that are
proven to get results.

And nutrition wise…

I keep it simple, tasty and easy to follow.

In the 30-Day Nutrition Plan I give out to new mums when
they join Pram Fitness, they experience weight loss, anywhere
from 2kg, to 5kg in the first 30-days.

We currently have an offer for you to come along and try
Pram Fitness with our intro offer of 14 Days for $14,
it’s an absolute bargain and a no brainer in terms of giving it a go…

To join our special intro offer CLICK HERE

Have a great day,
Karen

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How a busy working mum got started with exercise and how you can too!

As a mum it can feel like you’re on the go 24/7 with no time to look after yourself.

I often speak to mums who are busy, tired and feel like they can barely keep their eyes open, let alone think about the idea of exercising. After all, how are you meant to find time to workout when you can’t even go to the toilet without being interrupted by your little one?

I had a chat with one of our Pram Fitness mum’s – Fiona, to find out about her experience with finding a way to fit exercise into her already busy life. Before becoming a mum, Fiona worked in a very busy and stressful legal job as a lawyer. She juggled working long hours with trying to have a social life, spending time with her husband,  and of course her family. Then came along her first bundle of joy, a beautiful baby boy followed very quickly (within 7 months) she was pregnant again with number 2, her super cute little girl. When she thought she was busy before having a baby, having 2 in very close succession meant that she now had to be a ninja with her time management skills.

Between being a mother to 2 young kids, returning to the workplace, running errands, doctors appointments, cooking, cleaning etc… there was little time left to take care of herself, but somehow she found a way to fit it in.  I asked Fiona to kindly share her best tips for how she manages to fit in exercise and take care of her own health and body as a priority.

Here are Fiona’s top tips for fitting in exercise…

1: Find something that works for you

When my second child was 4 months old, I felt totally blah, was not proud of the way I looked and I was exhausted. I knew that I had to do something to make me feel better about myself, get my health back on track, and give me more energy. I had been a member of a gym before having my babies, but putting a 4 month old in a creche was not appealing to me, for two reasons: 1) I was concerned that my 4 month old might get knocked about by the older kids, and 2) both of my children were so young (my eldest was only 20 months at the time) that I knew there would be separation anxiety and I probably wasn’t going to get a planned workout in a lot of the time.  

Enter Pram Fitness… A  couple of my friends from my Mother’s Group had trained with Karen from Pram Fitness and recommended her, so I emailed her to and asked if I could come along for a trial. And as they say, the rest is history! My youngest is now nearly 18 months, so I have been training for 14 months now and I love it!. My children love coming to class and playing with the other kids, they get some outdoor play time, I get to chat and have a laugh with other adults, and I get to workout with my kids right next to me. Win, Win I think.

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2: Block out your time

Think about it like you are at work and you set a meeting in your calendar. Treat it as an appointment that you have to meet. If you have it blocked out the time, then you are more than likely to actually make it happen. My workdays are structured and busy, not that my days at home with two toddlers are not equally as demanding…

I am now back at work three days a week, so I can only get to Pram Fitness on Mondays and Tuesdays. I have made getting to those classes at 9:15am and 8:15am a priority on my “days off”. Nothing else is allowed to take priority-swimming lessons will not be booked at those times, I can’t do coffee at those times with friends…Make training a priority like you would treat a regular commitment.

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3: Have a plan of what you are going to do

Blocking out time to work out is great but it’s also important to think about what you are going to do with your time. For me, I just have to get myself and my kids dressed and out the door (which I think is hard enough) and the trainer takes care of the plan. If you are going to workout on your own make sure you think about what you are going to do so you don’t waste your time. Maybe it’s going to the gym or using an app; whatever it is just make it work for you.

4: Don’t even worry about what your “Active Wear” looks like

To be honest, if I get myself out the door without being spectacularly doused in vomit or snot that has been so helpfully transferred from one of my lovely tots’ noses to my top, then it’s a good day. I do have a whole heap of workout clothes that I rotate because I train outdoors so they do get dirty easily.

Personally I love Bonds Activewear-it’s reasonably priced and fun-I love wearing 80s fluoro and and a mismatch of animal prints. It’s a style choice that I’m not sure is working, but I like it, I’m comfortable and I’m training, so who cares!

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5: Workout with the kids at home

I very rarely get any alone time, actually I can’t remember the last time I was at home without two kids hanging off me and demanding my attention every second of the day. (That’s why work is actually a bit of a break for me…) Sometimes, when I’m not planning on going to a Pram Fitness class I take the kids outside with some toys and food. I keep them entertained by interacting with them (chatting, singing songs etc) while I am doing simple circuits that Karen gave to me, like this:

10 x Squats (usually holding a baby and a toddler grabbing one of my legs)
10 x Pushups
10 x Walking Lunges
5 x Burpees and
1 Min Plank

I would keep rolling through this circuit for as long as I can keep the kids happy but even if it’s a complete disaster and we have meltdowns. I think that fitting something in is better than doing nothing.

6: Play with your kids at the playground

When my kids are happily playing at the park I often have a look around to see what there is that I can make use of. Some of my best hot tips are doing things like tricep dips off a park bench, step ups or squats. Just be creative, run around with your kids, have fun and act like a big kid yourself.

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6: Walk instead of drive

Luckily here in Australia, even when it’s Winter and cold, it doesn’t really stop us from doing anything. I try to be mindful to not jump in the car when it’s possible to get around with the pram. Trust me, pushing two kids in the pram is no easy task. That in itself if a workout so I try to incorporate walking where I can.

7: Be honest about “not having time”

People who fit in regular exercise don’t find time, they make time. If we are really honest with ourselves most of us do waste time scrolling through Facebook, dreaming of a new kitchen and pinning on Pinterest, checking emails and even cleaning takes up a huge chunk of time. Don’t get me wrong, while I know cleaning needs to be done, to me a quick clean and fitting in a workout is much more important than everything around the house being absolutely spick and span. So if I’ve wasted 20mins on Facebook, I’d much prefer to use that time to do a quick workout.

8: Don’t be hard on yourself, raising children is hard!

The thing is, life happens and having kids means that you can never have a rigid plan that you will be able to stick to. Flexibility is key, and rolling with the punches.. I’ve just missed my last 2 training sessions because my whole household is full of sickness with the winter germs going around.

There are days when my planned workout doesn’t happen and I’m ok with that. It just means that if I have an opportunity to fit it in somewhere else I will. Don’t stress and don’t compare yourself to any mum that is making fitness with kids look easy on Instagram – they just have really good filters, or have an au pair hanging in the background that has been told to stay out of the shot

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9: Create your own support team

Juggling the demands of being a busy working mum can often feel overwhelming, always remember that you’re not alone. Pretty much every other mum around you is in the same boat. Find a mum friend that lives nearby and share the responsibility of looking after each others’ kids so that you can workout.

Sometimes just having someone to talk to makes all the difference when you are feeling tired and lacking energy – says Fiona. Make sure you ask for help when you need it and don’t say no if someone offers to help!

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10: Make it worth while

When you think about it, spending time with your family is always the most important thing. Working part-time in a busy job means less time with my family. One of the things that always runs through my head when I am working out is “Make it worthwhile” says Fiona. I have such limited time to exercise so when I do I am going to make it count.

Fitting in fitness into a busy schedule with 2 young kids is hard and for most people exercise is often the first thing to go. But with a little bit of planning I promise you it’s do-able. The great thing I have learnt from training with Pram Fitness is that thinking about my health is not just something that is optional anymore. Being a fit, healthy and strong mum is not only great for me, it means I am being a great role model for my children and if they grow up understanding how important it is it live an active lifestyle then I am happy!

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A big thankyou to Fiona, one of our very special Pram Fitness mummies for sharing her top ten tips with us. As a busy working mum we thought she was the perfect person to share her experience and let you know there is light at the end of the tunnel – you just have to want to make it happen.

If you would like to know more about Pram Fitness please check out or website: www.pramfitness.com.au